You are invited to Miya Gallery’s 2nd Annual Holiday Party
FEATURING THE JEWELRY OF JASON JANOW
GREAT FOOD, SPIRITS, HOLIDAY GIFTS
This Friday evening during the Candelight Stroll
5-8 p.m at MIYA GALLERY
20. N. MAIN ST.
WEAVERVILLE
Due to the surprise snowstorm, the Candlelight Stroll — originally scheduled for Friday December 8 — has been postponed until Friday December 15. We hope to see everyone next weekend for all the fun!
It’s hard to sum up a town as friendly and charming as Weaverville, NC. But if you had to, what three words would you choose?
Beverly-Hanks put Well-Bred Bakery & Cafe general manager, Laura Bogard to the test.
Mayberry
“Three words that come to mind when I think of Weaverville: One of them is ‘Mayberry,’” says Laura. “It’s sort of like that sort of small town feel—kids and young people, old people walking down the street.”
With so many events and amenities within minutes of the town’s center, not a day goes by without seeing people out shopping and dining. “There’s holiday parades and candlelight strolls, and it just feels really cute,” Laura says of the town’s popular annual events.
Eclectic
“I think [I would describe Weaverville as] eclectic, too, just because there’s the old timers who’ve been here for a long time. This area’s [also] attracting new people all the time, and so it’s really sort of becoming a little melting pot of lots of great, wonderful people of all walks of life—artists, professionals, families—it’s really kind of everyone,” says Laura.
Lake Louise Park is a hub of local recreation. The small lake is surrounded by picnic tables and shelters, outdoor grills, a playground, and a walking trail. It’s a perfect spot for family and community events, exercise, and romantic strolls.
Small Little Mountain Town
Continuing the theme of words that describe Weaverville, Laura says, “Maybe not just one word, but ‘small-little-mountain-town.’ You know, super cute.”
Learn More and Search for Homes
See the beauty of Weaverville and surrounding real estate for yourself! See photos or search for homes in the area from our Beverly-Hanks Weaverville community page.
Help us fill the box for the Eblen Charities
Saint Nicholas Project!
We are helping collect gifts for kids this season at Optix. The Box will be at the office till Dec. 14th. We will also have the box with us at our booth at the Candlelight Stroll. Please stop by and say hello! We look forward to seeing you all!
Health and the Happiness Factor
By Maureen McDonnell, RN
published in WNC Woman Magazine Nov 2017
Many adjectives have been used to describe the work those of us in the naturally-oriented health care fields do and how it differs from western or mainstream medicine. A few decades ago it was referred to as “alternative”, then to be more inclusive, the term “complimentary” emerged. At some point “holistic” was popular and now the more modern terminology is “integrative”. Regardless of the name given to this approach, at its core is the understanding that whole foods, herbs, exercise and reducing stress and toxins all play major roles in optimizing our health.
However, one essential factor that most of us were not emphasizing enough in our attempts to help individuals maximize their health – whether via an integrative or traditional approach was – the “happiness factor”!
Fortunately, a new science has emerged highlighting the fact that our attitudes such as – enthusiasm, optimism, hopefulness and engagement in life all have a positive influence on our health. In 2007 a study that followed 6000 men and women aged 25-70 for 20 years found that individuals with these traits and tendencies had a reduced risk of coronary heart disease. Additionally, a review of hundreds of studies found evidence that happier people have better overall health and live longer. Anxiety, depression, pessimism and a lack of enjoyment of daily activities have all been found to be associated with higher rates of disease including heart attacks, strokes, diabetes, depression and shorter lifespans.
Researchers also found that individuals who have an optimistic mindset were more likely to avoid risky behaviors such as excessive alcohol consumptions or overeating. People with a positive outlook on life on the other hand, tend to engage in healthier behaviors such as exercise, eating healthy foods and getting enough sleep. Taking care of your physical wellness may be the most effective happiness booster of all.
You’re not a naturally happy person you say – not to worry…. Science has confirmed that happiness can be learned via a set of skills and intentional habit changes and that with certain practices we can actually change the neural pathways in our brains. In fact these same researchers tell us, that only 10% of our happiness is based on our circumstances, the rest is determined by our attitudes and those we have control over!
Here are a few strategies to help enhance the “happiness factor” which in turn will improve your health.
- Start a Gratitude journal– We all know life is full of hardships and challenges (especially in recent times), but instead of rehashing the negative facts or keeping a journal of how people have mistreated you, write down 5 things you are grateful for on a daily basis. Read it over a few times and feel your mood lift. Gratitude not only increases positive emotions, but also sustains them.
- Neuroplasticity (“re-wiring” our brain), cognitive behavioral therapy, meditation and mindfulness are techniques and strategies for helping individuals control and or redirect their thoughts toward more positive outcomes.
- Express your gratitude to another– letting someone know you appreciate them with a kind gesture, a gift or just your words is another method for elevating your mood.
- Tell a Different Story– When recounting your childhood, a trauma, a negative life event, try telling it in a way that emphasizes what you learned and how you grew from that experience.
- Learn Strategies for Happiness from the Blue Zones: When researchers study the Blue Zones around the planet (where people live healthy, happy lives sometimes beyond 100 years of age) they’ve found some common features. From the mountainous community of Sardinia, Italy, to Okinawa to the Seventh Day Adventists in Loma Linda, CA the inhabitants of these Blue Zone areas all tend to – not only eat a plant-based diet, move naturally throughout their day, and have a positive outlook on life, but they also live supportive communities and have a network of friends. Feeling connected, supported and respected as we age all contribute to our happiness and overall health.
- Tune into how you feel! You’ll know if these strategies are working by the way you feel. If you feel good, your thoughts are most likely positive and contributing to an improved state of happiness and health
Although not as scientific (but no less influential on this subject), Louise Hay (who many refer to as the founder of the Self-Help Movement) popularized another important feature to our health and happiness. In the 1980s and 90s while working with AIDS victims and healing herself of cancer, Louise began writing and speaking extensively about self-love and understanding the importance of how our thoughts shape our life experience.
In her book Heal Your Body- The Mental Causes for Physical Illness and the Way to Overcome Them, Louise writes:
“What a joy it was when I first discovered the term “metaphysical causations”. This describes the power in the words and thoughts that create experiences. This new awareness brought me understanding of the connection between thoughts and the different parts of the body and physical problems… Now I could stop blaming life and other people for what was wrong in my life and my body. I could now take full responsibility for my own health. Without either reproaching myself or felling guilty, I began to see how to avoid creating thought patterns of disease in the future.”
One of Louise Hay’s favorite strategies for releasing negative thought patterns that were a contributing factor to dis-ease was practicing forgiveness and gratitude. Louise not only went on to heal herself from cancer, but to write several books, as well as start a very successful publishing company Hay House Publishing which is devoted to disseminating books, audios, videos etc. by teachers such as Wayne Dyer, Esther and Jerry Hicks, Christiane Northrup, MD and many others. Louise passed away peacefully in her sleep this past August at the age of 90. I will always be grateful for her pioneering work in helping us understand the importance of loving ourselves unconditionally and that minding our mind by controlling negative thought patterns and replacing them with positive loving thoughts is a great path to improving our health and happiness!
So while checking our Vit D levels, monitoring our blood pressure, eating organic food or drinking green juice are all important to our health, we now know they are incomplete strategies if we don’t also include the happiness factor- practicing positive thinking, and having an attitude of gratitude!
A favorite spiritual teacher of mine sums it up here- “If you could make a decision to not allow negative emotion to linger within you-and at the same time acknowledge that it is your work alone to refocus your attention in order to feel better, rather than asking someone else to do something different or for some circumstance to change to make you feel better – you will not only be a very healthy person, but you will be a joyful person. Joy, appreciation, love, and health are all synonymous.”
Whether you’re a research buff studying Harvard’s latest data, or more drawn to spiritual teachings -the message is basically the same- Life is short, lighten up, laugh more, appreciate more and include the happiness factor in your overall plan to live a long, healthy and joy filled life!
Bio- Maureen McDonnell has been a holistic, nutritionally-oriented RN for 40 years. She is the health editor of WNC Woman Magazine, the former national coordinator of the Defeat Autism Now! Conferences and the co-founder of Saving Our Kids, Healing Our Planet (SOKHOP.com). Maureen lectures widely on the role the environment, nutrition and happiness play in our health. She owns a specialized vitamin company – NutritionistsChoice.com, is a consultant with Arbonne International, lives in Weaverville (an unofficial Blue Zone) with her singer songwriter- CPA husband and is awaiting the birth of her 11th grandchild. Maureen is available for group presentations and private health consultations. Call 609-240-1315-
Happiness Factor Resources:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22506752
Resilience and Positive Emotions: F Phillipe et al. Pub 10 Dec 2008
Wild Mountain Bees is beyond excited to be a part of the Weaverville Community this holiday season. To get everyone prepared for the candlelight stroll this Friday evening, our classic beeswax taper candles will be on sale this week – $4.80 instead of $8.00!
We will also have extended hours on Friday, remaining open until 9pm to be a part of the seasonal fun.
On this Saturday the 9th, we will have fourteen local craftspeople and artists set up selling their goods in our shop. We will have cozy knit wear, handmade pottery, local jun (a fermented honey drink), bath & body goods, and more! Open to the public from 10-5:30.
Looking forward to seeing you!
December 8th, 6-9 pm, during the Candlelight Stroll, stop by the shop to meet three unique local artists who will have their work on display in the gallery through the month of December. We will have refreshments on hand, and Bob and Carla would love to chat!
Our December artists are:
Robert Brownlee with his eclectic mix of collage, watercolor, and acrylic works:
Vickie Causby, with classy and exquisite still life and nature watercolor pieces:
And Kelsey Mitchell, with creative acrylic, watercolor and collage:
Hope to see you Friday! Support your local artists!
Isn’t it nice when someone gets you the perfect gift? That thing you really want, but don’t want to buy for yourself… that’s what makes a gift registry so awesome, right? Do you wish your partner/kids/friends could know exactly what gifts to get you?
Did you know that 5 Little Monkeys offers a wish list service? It’s super easy (and we can even be “stealth” about it if need be).
Is there a sewing machine you have been lusting after? Is there some nifty gadget you can’t live without? Maybe you just want to be the first one to get that great new fabric that is coming out… gift cards were made for that very thing! Next time you are in the store, just tell one of us what you dream of having.
All you need to do is ask and we will add it to your customer information. Then when that special event (holiday, birthday, anniversary or “you know you were really a jerk, wanna know how to make it up to me?” day) comes up, you can just say, “the Monkeys know what I want.” And we will use our ninja skills to make everyone happy!
So the question is, what will you put on YOUR list?
BOXER BUTTS AND OTHER MUTTS ADOPTION EVENT AT OPTIX EYECARE Dec. 2nd 3:00-4:00
After the Weaverville Christmas Parade, join us at Optix (across from North Buncombe Middle School)! Meet the dogs, get your raffle tickets and find out more about all that BBOM does for our community and the pups we love.
Not ready to commit to being a forever home but still want to help? Stop by and find out more about how you can foster a dog in need.
Enter to WIN a GOLF CART or 50″ TV! Raffle tickets are $5 each or 5 for $20. All proceeds go to the BBOM medical fund.
49 N. Buncombe School Rd. Weaverville, NC 28787